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I first heard about Rainbow Camp during my Grade 7 Open Day at PHS. My intention from day one at PHS was to make sure I succeeded in my application to go on one of the four camps in Grade 11, as it sounded like an opportunity not to be missed.After the first two camps this year, I noticed how the camps had changed a few of my friends, especially their special interaction with one another. Curiosity was eating at me; I wanted to know what it was about this camp that was so different. Eager to go on this journey, I applied for Rainbow Camp 3 and was extremely excited to be chosen. I knew almost everyone but welcomed the opportunity to make some new friends.
The long-awaited Friday eventually arrived but it was our school’s Derby Day. At first I was hesitant and upset about missing this but later realized it would definitely be worth it. We were all happy and excited. As soon as we departed we all began dancing and singing in the bus. Despite all our differences, the team spirit was amazing. We arrived at the camp after a long drive and it looked exactly the same as all the pictures I saw. I thought the only way to get the most out of the camp was to co-operate and do everything to the best of my ability.
However, the period at the camp was emotionally challenging as I initially struggled to open up to my fellow peers. The different challenges and activities took me out of my comfort zone but in the end helped me to understand and trust people more. For the first time in my life I started seeing others without the masks that they usually wear. I thought I knew people but they always seemed so different at school and once these masks were removed it showed their true identity. I had never realized how judgmental I could be and I had to confront this. I also learnt how important it is to be more tolerant of others, especially in this diverse South African society. This self awareness was a big learning opportunity for me as it helped me to trust others more. I also learnt how to really listen and change how I treat others. This had a positive impact as I learnt things about my peers that I had never known.
I have always been competitive and very driven, especially when I make up my mind to reach a goal. I hadn’t realized what a big influence I can have over others. I now know I have to be conscious of the people who look up to me. This camp taught me how important it is to always be aware of how my actions can impact others. I was shocked to discover how differently everyone reacted to the same experience. I had always thought there was nothing wrong with what I did but learnt that it’s the smallest things that can hurt others. The lessons learnt at the camp were something I feel I could not have learnt anywhere else; it was an awesome learning journey. I feel like a veil has been lifted from my eyes and for the first time I feel I see things more clearly. I didn’t think that I would ever cry in front of my friends, but our experiences and the sharing of our lives brought tears to my eyes and fellow peers. It really touched my heart and from that point on, I truly wanted to change some of my qualities and habits. I made a conscious choice to make a difference not only in my life but everyone surrounding me. I will continuously work on my approach and behaviour in my relationships and communication with others. This self-awareness showed me that I couldn’t make anyone change, and that change would have to start with me; and I am willing to do that.
To my surprise, the camp also gave me the opportunity to understand a teacher. It took a lot of courage but eventually I made a truce and a commitment to have a new attitude towards her. What surprised me the most was how great I felt afterwards, because I thought I would go through my whole high school career ending things on a bad note.
Rainbow Camp helped me to understand myself and the impact and strong influence I have on others, what I really like and dislike, and my ambitions during my final years at Pinelands High. I really and truly believe I gained a lot from this camp and especially from my peers. To me I don’t feel I gained 19 new friends but 19 new family members. It is amazing that 19 people from diverse backgrounds have all gained a special place in my heart. I also feel honored to have shared this time and experience with the teachers and facilitators. Rainbow Camp has been one of the main highlights of my school career. It was a life-changing experience that I will treasure. I have already started applying my learnings and can see the positive changes. I also coach the junior children at our Karate club and the tolerance and understanding of others will help me become a better coach. My renewed faith and trust in others will improve my communication skills which will be an asset in my career. Ms Baron, you are the best – thank you for the most unique camp.I intend coming back in a few years’ time to facilitate at these camps to help change lives of others as well. Rainbow Camp “rocks”- the transformation I went through will be one of my most memorable life experiences.
Moegemad Isaac
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